Its easy to get into a relationship and it takes an argument or call it a fight or a bad phase to breakup-up but maintaining the relation is the hard side. A newly started relationship is very sensitive one, because first of all you don’t know each other very deeply. You might be friends before, may be the best friends but when that friend/Best friend become Girlfriend/Boyfriend things changes and secondly you don’t know the expectations of each other.
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Here is 6 Things Should Be Followed If You Are In Newly Started Relationship:
1. Trust-Honesty-Communication
Trust is a soul of very relationship and your honesty maintains that trust. Its little hard to trust your partner if your relation is new, can say 2-3 weeks older. If your friend says something about your partner you almost believe them, though you pretend that you don’t but you do. Please do not doubt. Communication and being willing to discuss anything that comes in the relationship is key to making a new relationship work. If you don’t talk about what’s bothering you, it won’t go away –it will just get bigger and more frustrating. You should be the first person to tell abut your Past affairs to your partner, if you had any. It should not be told by some of his/her friend.
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2. Rules of P.D.A
People have different comfort levels when it comes to couples behavior in public. Find the line and don’t cross it. Overdose of Public Display of Affection can make your image of being a desperate one. Enjoy every moment of your new relationship and remember there is absolutely no rush to move onto the next stage. Be sensitive to the other person’s feelings and don’t try and rush them along in the relationship before they are ready.
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3. Privacy
Very important thing is Privacy. Everyone is excited about the first kiss, first date and all those things that happens with you for the first time. The most silly things nowadays people do is going and sharing with their friends-best friends and that friend-best friend compare your dates with theirs and discuss it further with their pals. This is a relationship, not an elongated one-night stand. There’s no need to talk about what goes on in the bedroom and what were the things your partner told you during late night chats.Telling all your friends, posting status updates about true love or talking incessantly to colleagues about your new beau may leave you feeling foolish if things don’t work out. Just hold back a little.keep it private.
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4. Spending Time
Many relationships fail is due to lack of time spent together. In a newly started relationship it is very important to spend a quality time with your partner because it give chances to know each other more deeply, nicely. It helps you to know the likes/dislikes expectation of your partner. The first weeks and months are the time to have fun, to find out what makes each other tick, to look forward to seeing each other and explore what you like doing together.Rather than get stuck going out to dinner or lavishing each other with expensive gifts to show your love, consider some of the many interesting ways to spend time with your boyfriend or girlfriend that are inexpensive, and create quality memories.
5. Space To Grow
It can be tempting to be in touch with your new mate all day and all night and it is easier than ever to do this now with text, email and instant messaging but too much contact can easily stifle a new love. There needs to be time and space for you to miss each other, to look forward with excited anticipation to the next call or date – if calls and texts are coming every five minutes what is there to look forward to?
6. Don’t Fake It
You can show your fake side for a week may be for a month but can drag it for eternity. Just be what you are in front of your partner. Give the other person an honest representation of yourself. Mistrust and deceit could ultimately harm your relationship. Its OK if you are not a rock-star, your partner loves you for what you are and will accept the real YOU.
